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Men: International Dressing

Friday, August 19th, 2011

There is a misconception that when conducting international business, you can dress casually because other countries dress just as, or even more casually than the USA.

This is untrue, with much of the world, including countries with very high temperatures, dressing much more professional than most Americans. Males in many countries routinely wear suits which show their level of position and serious attitude towards business.

Image by Jobro

Color is another important consideration when dressing internationally. In the US, white means pure, clean and honest. In other countries, it is known as death and for funerals. Purple is another color that in the US means royalty or affluence and in other countries means mourning. Blue, in some countries is also an indication of death, where in the US, it represents loyalty, honesty and hard work.

Research the countries (or call me) you will be doing business with to ensure you project the correct image and feeling.  If you don’t you could lose a business opportunity.

You’re new to the professional workforce and respect but don’t want to dress like the women decades your senior. What do you do?

Let’s start with clothes you may have worn in the past or even wear now that are never appropriate for a professional environment: Halter tops, miniskirts, shirts that expose your stomach, low cut tops, shorts, low cut jeans, any pants that reveal your underwear, any top sheer enough to see your bra through, sweatpants, pajama bottoms, workout wear (unless you’re in athletics, a personal trainer or a health club)

Well, what can you wear?

Unless you’re in an ultra-conservative industry or company, have fun with colors and prints. Show your personality using bright colors you enjoy such as purple, yellow or red.

If you normally wear leggings or skinny jeans, choose pants that have a narrower (not tight) silhouette.

Shirts can be trendy and fun without being revealing. Choose from fun shapes and prints including ones with bell sleeves or shirts with a band around the hips.

Your shoes and accessories can also convey your youth. Think fun lace up boots and peep toes. Pair them with colorful or patterned tights or wear fun (not character) socks in the same color family. Jewelry can be chunky or long (or both) depending on your style.

Build your wardrobe to show you’re young but still professional and ready to make your mark.

                                                                                                          

Butts, Boobs & Bellies

Thursday, July 15th, 2010

It’s now summer which means hot and sticky weather. Are you tempted to show much more of your body than normal due to heat and humidity or just a feeling of happiness due to the more relaxed nature of summer? If you are, think twice (or three times).

Unless you’re spending time on the beach at your cottage, there’s no need to bare your butt, boobs and belly in public. This is true for both men and women.

Women, you may think you look sexy showing off the Big 3, but you just look raunchy. Believe it or not, the majority of people don’t want to see too much and the ones that do, you probably don’t want to attract. When people stare at you, it’s not because you look good; it’s because they wonder why you are so inappropriate.

Men, no one is impressed or wants to see your butt and underwear. Pull the pants up and put a belt on.

Am I saying this because I’m a prude? Definitely not. I want you to receive the highest level of respect from people around you whether it’s employers, colleagues, clients, friends, or even a potential significant other. You will lose credibility and possible opportunities if you’re seen as too “fun loving” and not serious enough about the image you portray.

Just say no to bare butts, boobs and bellies.